Kinky Kollege Spring Break 2017

(partial presenter list)

IPCookieMonster (classes)

IPCookieMonster is a sexual gymnast. She has been a kinky pansexual polyamorous pagan freak for several years, and has written extensively about about her deliciously deviant lifestyle on fetlife and her blog, In the “vanilla” world, she has one of the best jobs ever: she’s a professor of sociology who studies the BDSM scene. In the “chocolate” world, she writes about and teaches kink, is a founding member of the firespinning troupe Hubris, and is an occasional burlesque/ropelesque perfomer. Having gone through everything from ballet to tap to fire to pole, she was starting to run out of forms of dance to study in her insatiable quest for new ways to sexily manipulate the human body when she was captured by the divinely inspired ropes of Murphy Blue. And lo, she found a new form of dance to obsess about (bondage) and got some new gods as a bonus. Once she had the epiphany that bondage is fucking awesome, she decided to start preaching the artistic, spiritual, and seductive powers of rope from the bottom.

Duke of Pudding (classes)

Affectionately nicknamed “Swoop” for his uncanny ability to bring new people into his circle of influence, The Duke of Pudding has a penchant for silliness while maintaining respect for his personal history, Leather heart, and the kink community. Conducting experiments in sadism, bondage, and mindfuckery privately for many years, Duke emerged in the San Diego public scene in early 2012, and can be characterized by his affable personality and penchant for the absurd.  An advocate of creative play, he often enjoys finding unique ways to reinvent “traditional” BDSM stylings and employing unconventional bondage techniques in his scenes.  He further enjoys facilitating workshops and teaching people how to play safely with their chosen toys, with a particular emphasis on impact play, electricity, and fire.

Duke is the current President of Club X San Diego, a non-profit devoted to BDSM education.  He has additionally served on the Board of Directors for both The Stomping Ground and Leather Realm, and also was one of the organizers who first brought the Butchmann’s Experience to San Diego.  He is currently pursuing a path of mastery through self awareness, and when he’s not elbow-deep in the ass of a community event, he can be found relaxing aboard his sailboat in San Diego Bay.

Dan and dawn (classes)

Dan and dawn, a lifestyle couple of many years – as well as authors, educators and co-producers of two annual events, The Power eXchange Summit & Beyond The Love: Polyamory Summit – bring their diverse backgrounds and experiences to each presentation and workshop they lead. With their blend of training and experience in Sacred Sexuality, BDSM, M/s & energy work, they offer a unique perspective to their audience. Although they have presented hundreds of workshops over the past 10 years, they continue to bring great enthusiasm and energy to each presentation.

Dan and dawn are the authors of Living M/s: A book for Masters, slaves, and Their Relationships as well as creators of the wildly popular Kink Starter cards! They are co-hosts of the Erotic Awakening internet radio show, an educational podcast that explores “all things erotic”; Great Lakes region Master & slave title holders (2010); creators of the Scarlet Sanctuary and Path of the Qadishti (sacred sexuality spaces); featured educators on both Kink Academy and Creative Sexuality; and mentioned in a number of books, articles, and other media.

Allena Gabosch (classes)

Allena Gabosch, former Executive Director of the Center For Sex Positive Culture ( and the Foundation for Sex Positive Culture ( (retired January 1, 2015) has been active in the sex positive movement practically from its beginning; producing educational and social events for the sex-positive community since 1990.  She is a frequent speaker on many sex-positive subjects at colleges and conferences around the US and Canada, with an emphasis on BDSM and Polyamory.  She was the Producer of the Seattle Erotic Art Festival ( She is a past board member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom ( In her less than mundane non-kinky life she loves good food(especially bacon), exploring Seattle and is working on several books.  She is a former commissioner with the Seattle LGBT Commission.

She is currently working on three books (yes she is a masochist) and has just started her new blog.

She is a kinky bisexual, polyamorous switch and considers herself extremely blessed as she has a rich and full poly life, with many amazing and loving people in her “polycule”

Julian Wolf (classes)

An adventure with Julian Wolf promises to be filled with creative exploration and a flair for hedonism. A person who dons many hats, Julian is known as an educator, MC, wordsmith, producer, and boylesque performer in addition to working as an activist and actively serving the alternative community since the turn of the century. Honored and delighted to be able to travel to the far reaches of North America to share their passions, you can follow Julian’s adventures virtually on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and

Pyrosadist (classes)

Brian aka Pyro Sadist has been in the scene for almost two decades. Brian and dottie founded The Gate, one of the largest munch groups in the Philadelphia, as well as, The Gate in Massachusetts. His leather family includes: dottie, his femsubs caroline & sammi, his boy rain, Monika, Horns, Tia, Amylynne, NyghtOwl & JD…along with some nieces & nephews along the way.

Brian’s main passion is fire. He has never been known to pass up an opportunity to set someone on fire or how to teach someone how to set someone on fire.

Brian has given instruction in Fireplay, Needleplay, and Singletails at The Society, Behind The Scenes-Pa, The Black Phoenix, Dark Odyssey, Camp Crucible, Leather Retreat, and TES.

Currently he lives in NJ MUCH closer to most of his leather family.

Ruby B Johnson (classes)

Ruby B Johnson received her Masters of Social Work in 2004 from the University of Texas. Ruby’s roles have included clinical practitioner, community and professional development educator, and adjunct professor. In private practice, her areas of expertise are substance use disorders, obsessive and compulsive sexual behaviors, attachment disorders, multi-cultural families and couples, gender expression/gender identity issues, consensual nonmonogamous partnerships, and Kink/BDSM. Ruby received her certification as a master forensic social worker and is a Texas Credentialed Advance Mediator. Ruby is CEO with Inamorata LLC, Inamorata LLC Forensics, and PolyDallas Millennium© LLC.

She has presented at several national, state, and local conferences including Society of Social Work Research, Council of Social Work Education, DFW Behavioral Health, The Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians, International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals, and The Texas Association of Addiction Professionals. Her opinion and expertise on race relations, profiling, and systemic implications has been featured in the encyclopedia, African Americans and the Criminal Justice System, Carol The Sex Addiction Coach Radio Show, Ms. Beautiful Magazine, Vice News, Politiken, Our Sexuality! Magazine, and as a regular commentator on the Dallas Weekly Radio: First Amendment Show. Ruby is a contributor for Huffington Post. Ruby B Johbnsobn is a sex therapist in the Dallas area.

Susan Wright (classes)

Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as spokesperson. Susan has presented over a hundred seminars for professional organizations, Universities and community groups on discrimination against kinky people, BDSM vs. Abuse, and the media influence on the persecution of alternative sexuality. Susan has also conducted several surveys documenting discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners as well as consent practices and attitudes. She directed the successful DSM-5 Revision Project that helped convince the American Psychiatric Association to depathologize consensual BDSM behaviors in 2013, and she coordinated the SM Policy Reform Project for the National Organization for Women (NOW) which resulted in rescinding their anti-SM policy at their national conference in 1999. Susan is a USA Today Bestselling author who began her writing career in 1993, and has published more than 30 novels and nonfiction books on art and popular culture with Pocket Books, Penguin Group, St. Martin’s Press and Kensington. (

BebeBlueEyes (classes)

Bebe is a very active, joyful submissive, super foodie and a playful service topping bottom. An overly active member of the local St Louis community for nearly a decade, she has contributed much to her local groups. Having taught at Madtown Kinkfest, Kinky Kollege, FLOG_StLouis (Fetish Lifestyle Open Group), the Submissive Odyssey, she now owns her own venue where she teaches or sponsors speakers presenting on a wide range of topics affecting our alternative lifestyle & sexuality groups. The main goal being to educate professionals on the aspects of BDSM, the cornerstone of consent in the lifestyle, accepted safe practices and to help them understand the complicated lifestyle issues with which their clients may present.
Bebe is a current Board Member of NCSF and Coalition Partner Rep for StL3, a long standing, St Louis Mo based, BDSM group which focuses on education, support and social interaction for persons living alternative lifestyles. She has also served for seven years on several boards and committees for StL3. She is a mother of a TNG kinkster, an IT Professional and kinky business owner! Her passions are service to the community (as you can see!), education and personal responsibility through empowerment.

WhiskyTangoFoxy (classes)

WhiskyTangoFoxy is a bottom leaning switch that loves self-tying, self-suspension bondage and DIY projects. She is an active member of the Chicago BDSM scene. She frequents Galleria Domain 2, where she serves as part of the volunteer bar crew. In addition to leading the Kink Craft Workshop and a handful of events every month, she also serves on the moderator team for FetLife’s Self-Tie Tuesday group.

Mercury (classes)

Mercury happily serves the Nashville and Middle Tennessee kink community as the Managing Director of its kink community center (The Mark) and the alt sex community at large as a Director for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.  As an invited regional speaker, Mercury facilitates thinking conversations on BDSM, fetish, non-traditional relationships, and the foundational concept of consent.  And, when given the rare opportunity, Mercury enjoys traveling with his girls, Nyssa and Liylah, spreading the gospel of D/s protocol and culture.

Kallisti (classes)

Kallisti is an outgoing, personable Domme hailing from Oklahoma City. She has been in the community for many years, and enjoys sharing her unique perspective on Leather and the community. Kallisti strongly believes in service to the community at large, and is working towards creating the country’s largest 24/7 BDSM community center . As a Domme, she is sadistic with a taste for blood play, intense whipping scenes, and fire play. She is a dynamic, high energy individual both in and out of the dungeon. One of her favorite things is traveling; she has appeared at events such as Thunder in the Mountains, Pain on the Plains, Power eXchange Summit, and many others. As a presenter she is very dynamic and engaging, and loves bringing her unique set of skills to the dungeon. Those attending her classes have called them ‘wickedly satisfying’ and often return to future classes.

Laminae (classes)

Laminae is an active member of the midwest BDSM Community. He enjoys the mental side of BDSM and brings a strong dynamic to his scenes. He is an avid teacher who is passionate about sharing his experiences and skills with the community at large. He is a certified teacher of three different martial arts- Kung Fu Dim Mak, Silat Suffin Bela Diri, and Tai Chi. He has taught many anti-rape classes, self defense classes, and danger awareness classes throughout the state to a variety of different students. Laminae is an avid Blacksmith, Toy maker, and Whip craftsman. In his free time he enjoys reading, studying martial arts, and spending time with friends.

Trinity (classes)

Trinity (writergirl on FetLife) is a published author, coach, and kink educator living in Atlanta, GA. She has been involved with the lifestyle in some capacity since 1993, having been drawn primarily by the mental, d/s side of things. She identifies as poly, is married, and is the s-type in a M/s relationship separate from her husband. She’s taught multiple kink-related topics across the Southeast at major events, dungeons, and local groups in Atlanta, GA, Nashville, TN, Tampa, FL, Baton Rouge, LA, as well as Alabama and North and South Carolina. You can find her on Twitter @Trinity_Writes and you can check out her book on Amazon at

Ferrett Steinmetz (classes)

Ferrett Steinmetz has been married to his wife for seventeen years, happily married to her for fifteen, and has a long-term girlfriend of over eight years in addition to other thriving relationships.  He’s well known on FetLife for routinely racking up thousands of “loves” on his essays on polyamory and communication.

He’s also a Nebula-nominated science-fiction writer whose debut novel FLEX was described by Barnes and Noble as “What might result if you put Breaking Bad and Reddit in a blender and hit ‘frappe’.”  The other books, THE FLUX and the FIX, are equally good and you should totally buy them if you like stories about videogamemancers and unapologetically kinky videogamemancers into pegging.

You can follow Ferrett on Twitter as @ferretthimself, or you can visit his blog at

Master Malik & Slave cathy (classes)

As a student of life, Leather and BDSM, Master Malik is always eager to share his views, thoughts and ideas with any willing people who give him some of their time to listen. Significant similarities between Leather and Sufism have helped Master Malik to continue his journey on the path of mastery and slavery with his precious slave Cathy.

Master Malik is proud to serve as Southwest Master 2008. He is an associate member of T.U.L.S.A., founder of MaST-Tulsa and an associate member of Chicago Hellfire Club.

Slave Cathy have been active in the alternative lifestyle community for many years, having a leadership roles in local leather clubs and organizations. She is an associate member of T.U.L.S.A. (a local Leather club), and MAsT-Tulsa. She was privileged to serve as Ms. Great Plains Olympus Leather 2006, Southwest slave 2008, and as Ms. South Central Leather Woman 2010. Her passion lies in mentoring and educating the ones who seek the knowledge in alternative lifestyle, especially Master/slave relationship.

Master Malik and slave Cathy are avid practitioner of old fashion SM and strongly believes in a powerful connection between SM and spiritual realm. They strongly believe with passion about “Acceptance”, “Tolerance” and “Diversity” of our larger tribe.

Furr (classes)

Furr is a submissive masochist who has been involved in the public BDSM community for almost 10 years. Throughout that time she has grown to love attending and volunteering for local events: Dark Nirvana, Deviations and Grind (Madison) and larger events: Madtown Kinkfest, Kinky Kollege, and Twisted Tryst. Her experiences include working registration, set-up, tear down, dungeon monitoring, taught classes for the Board of Education and Madtown Kinkfest. She has experience planning fundraisers for community members in need and has even helped to arrange a successful weight-loss competition for members of the community.
Furr has experienced bottoming for many types of play and has also served as a demo bottom for a variety of classes. This experience has been wide-ranging, from sensual play to heavy impact and high-risk physical play. It is these experiences, and understanding the risks involved, that have helped her develop ways to take responsibility for herself, her safety and her play. She takes great pride in herself and the lessons that she has learned through her activity in the BDSM community.   First and foremost among these is personal responsibility in all things to do with her activities, especially when it comes to play.  It is from this perspective that she will share in all the classes she is fortunate enough to teach.


A BDSM player for 20 years, Spike doesn’t play with one aspect of BDSM, he enjoys playing with all of them. A rope artist, a whip aficionado, a sub, a Daddy, a pony; he enjoys being all of them.  Spike’s wry sense of humor and timing ensures a lively conversation at any event. He resides in Madison, Wisconsin with his Mistress: Mistress Mayhem. Spike has presented at Shibaricon, Beyond Leather, Madtown Kinkfest, COPE, and Twisted Tryst (where he leads the award-winning Twisted Tryst abduction team). When he’s not playing with rope, Spike enjoys cracking whips, being a DJ and spinning fire.

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