Ruby

Ruby has been active in the kink community since 2011 and teaching since 2015. A dedicated bottom and community educator, she focuses…

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Ruby has been active in the kink community since 2011 and teaching since 2015. A dedicated bottom and community educator, she focuses on the lived experience of power exchange, communication, and personal growth through kink. Her classes emphasize practical wisdom and shared community knowledge.

2026 Classes

What Is Your Best Wisdom as an Experienced Bottom? Roundtable
Some of the most valuable knowledge in kink comes from lived experience. This facilitated round table invites all bottoms to share the lessons, insights, and practical wisdom they’ve gathered over time. Participants will discuss topics such as communication, navigating power exchange, personal growth through play, and the realities of long-term bottoming. What’s the advice you most would like to share with someone new?

Recovery in the Lifestyle — 12-Step Morning Meeting
A morning recovery meeting for anyone in the lifestyle who identifies as being in recovery, as well as their loved ones. This gathering follows a traditional 12-step format and offers a supportive space to share experience, strength, and hope before the day’s classes begin. Recovery in the Lifestyle is a national organization, we will be sharing information on how to connect with them after the con as well.

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