The Lady V

The Lady V is a spiritually & socioculturally driven sex-positive educator, community organizer, lifestyle switch & pro dominatrix based out of Los Angeles, CA. Lady V has taught for conferences & sex positive venues across the US & internationally. She serves as an Advocacy Board Member for Sex Positive World & proudly helps facilitate their education as the Remote Education Coordinator. Lady V has also served the community by facilitating public health events, play parties, educational intensives, & so much more. Prior to jumping into pursuing sex education as a full time passion, Lady V served as a Behavioral Services Program Manager for one of the few agencies in the world specializing in navigating sexuality & gender for people navigating intellectual/developmental disabilities. Her work around modular, individualistic care & advocacy has shifted to the larger world of sex positivity. View more of her work at her website TheLadyV.net, Fetlife @‌The_Lady_V, or Instagram @Switchinatrix or @TheLadyV.

Homecoming 2026 Classes

Edge of Glory: Prostate Milking & Cock Edging Techniques (2)
Who says you need udders to get milked like a cow? We’re on the edge of an orgasm with this class on everything to do with edging & finding the great prophesied prostate! Edging, a term to describe stimulating someone’s genital close to orgasm but not allowing them to cum is a great way to tease a partner into having an extremely powerful orgasm…or even torture them by endlessly not cumming (or even “ruining” their orgasm). Learn how to dip your fingers into learning about the art of prostate milking, a powerful technique to bring someone to orgasm. We’ll put our finger on: Finding one’s “P-Spot”, how to stimulate prostate with a light & heavy touch, angles & positions to get the best angle, edging someone’s cock without touching them (yes, seriously), & how to simultaneously use a mix of prostate stimuli & edging.

Energetic & Fluid Vampirism w/ The Lady V (2)
DISCLAIMER: This is NOT a Blood Play class.
This includes elements of Blood & other Fluid based play but non-fluid based Vampirism is completely valid & often practiced. This ain’t a stroll through Spirit Halloween,… Join real life bloodsucker, The Lady V, for a class you can really sink your teeth deep into. Vampirism, while often portrayed within a mythological framework, is practiced in reality. The root of Vampirism is playing with energy, & dare I say occasionally….romance. Vampirism can be explored through fluids like spit, urine, cum, & blood. Fluids not your thing? Energy is delicious as well… In this class we’ll take a bite into: Vampire/thrall dynamics, feeding during hookups or with play partners, energetic vs fluid-based vampirism, vampirism as a spiritual & energetic tool for connection, submission & release, give, receive & recycle energy as a vampire & how to ethically engage, & negotiation, disclosure, STI consideration!

Holy Cow! Intro to Hucow & Bovine Play (2)
TW: Includes sexual content, AMAB genitalia, concepts around CNC, & mentions of ancestral trauma, misogyny, & genocide
Discover ways to create a unique headspace, explore multiple roles, implement forms of play, & learn about milking methods for udder pleasure! This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space. We’ll steak out the multiple ways we can: Getting deeper into Bovine Headspace, Breast & chest torture & nipple stimulation, Lactation induction & STI safety around lactation, Navigating what types of pumps or milkers to use, D-type roles such as Farmer, Rancher, or Butcher, & Bovine play as a masculine, male, or gender non-conforming person. Top, bottom, switch, hucow (human-cow), bull, ox, farmer, butcher, or just curious, this class is for you! Join us, chew the cud, & love your cow. Built-in mind to be inclusive of any gender identity.