Bettie Brickhouse

Bettie Brickhouse has been a professional Domme, session wrestler, and fetish performer for 14 years, with experience in impact and fire play, fetish wrestling, sadistic massage, and more. She’s the proud owner of a Cowgirl, an enthusiastic co-topper, and always happy to find creative new applications for consensual sadism. Outside the dungeon, Bettie plays roller derby and fights armored combat in the SCA, continuing a longstanding preference for hobbies that leave bruises. She teaches from years of hands-on experience, with an emphasis on practical skills, risk awareness, and making kink education fun.

Homecoming 2026 Classes

Just Say No (or we’re not there yet) (1)
A practical communication workshop for saying no (and hearing no) without spiraling; especially for conflict-avoidant folks and people with rejection sensitivity. We’ll practice scripts for declining actions as basic as hugging or cuddling in the moment and stopping a scene. There will be structured roleplay in pairs/small groups, with clear opt-outs and no forced contact.

Vulvas, Fisting, and Sybians (2)
A shame-free, anatomy-aware skills class focused on vulva-centered pleasure: how to talk about preferences, pace intensity, use lubrication strategically, and explore different kinds of touch. We’ll also discuss fisting vaginas, and how tools like a Cowgirl can assist with the process. Optional Cowgirl ride will be kept fully clothed/external and are strictly opt-in (no pressure, no audience coercion).

Sadistic Massage: How to Give “Good Pain” Without Burning Out Your Hands (2)
A practical, body-mechanics-forward class on giving massage that’s intense, controlled, and sustainable for the giver. We’ll cover posture, leverage, pacing, and tools that help you deliver consistent pressure without hand fatigue. Then we’ll explore how to layer in consensual “sadistic” elements while keeping communication and care front-and-center.