Author: Nightmare

  • Co-Topping Mastery

    In this interactive workshop, we’ll learn tips and tricks of active co-topping (and bottoming). We’ll talk about (and show and practice for those interested!), non-verbal sync and micro-cues, clean hand-offs of toys, positions, mind space, and more! Bring your toys and let’s co-top!

  • Hypnokink Share and Do!

    Daniel Belum, certified hypnotist, leads a gathering of both hypno-kinksters and hypno-curious in a two-part session. Start off with a guided conversation around hypnosis and how it can be used consensually and for kinky fun! And in part 2, do some hypnokink! Participate as a hypnotist or as a receiver, with clear safe boundaries. Don’t…

  • Mash-Up!

    Managing Multiple Power Exchange Partnerships Sheila has a sub. And a slave. The slave is also a switch. A switch that tops a puppy. A puppy who owns a boi. A boi who dates Sheila. Daniel Belum, who has a variety of power exchange (as well as polyamorous and vanilla) relationships, discusses tools to help…

  • Strike and Submit

    A Hands-On Caning Workshop Strike and Submit is a hands-on exploration of caning that goes beyond simply learning how to swing a stick. We’ll cover cane types, targeting and strike zones, body mechanics, positioning, thud versus sting, rhythm, anticipation, and techniques for building intensity intentionally. Through demonstrations and short practice rounds, we’ll focus on accuracy,…

  • Love, Lies, and Red Flags

    Recognizing Manipulation Where It Masquerades as Love Have you ever looked at a list of relationship red flags and thought, “I’d know if that happened to me”? This Class goes beyond simply naming warning signs to explore what manipulation, coercive control, and unhealthy dynamics actually look and feel like when you’re living inside them. Red…

  • Sadistic Massage

    How to Give “Good Pain” Without Burning Out Your Hands A practical, body-mechanics-forward class on giving massage that’s intense, controlled, and sustainable for the giver. We’ll cover posture, leverage, pacing, and tools that help you deliver consistent pressure without hand fatigue. Then we’ll explore how to layer in consensual “sadistic” elements while keeping communication and…

  • Vulvas, Fisting, and Sybians

    A shame-free, anatomy-aware skills class focused on vulva-centered pleasure: how to talk about preferences, pace intensity, use lubrication strategically, and explore different kinds of touch. We’ll also discuss fisting vaginas, and how tools like a Cowgirl can assist with the process. Optional Cowgirl ride will be kept fully clothed/external and are strictly opt-in (no pressure,…