Sir Synister Tokin

A decade deep in the Indianapolis kink community and still raising eyebrows. Pansexual, polyamorous, P.O.C. leather service top with a reputation for giving back just as hard as he plays. Volunteer, event builder, educator, and current VP for ILC, plus co-leader of Indy Buzz, the local electric crew. He thrives on edge play, electricity, fire, impact, and keeping you guessing. This daddy somehow still finds time for anime, cult classics, and all things deliciously weird from the 80s and 90s. If it’s strange, intense, or just a little dangerous… Sir Synister Tokin probably knows where to start.

2026 Classes

Unorthodox Kink (2)

You walk into a dungeon, you people using floggers, paddles, riding crops, handcuffs and so many other tools in their BDSM journey. Who’s to say you can’t use other objects to get the same effect. Ever thought about placing rice in a sock and using that for a thuddy impact? Ever use the handle of the flogger for a different sensation midscene? Textbooks and classes will teach you how to do things one way and people for years have been doing it the same way for years. Who’s to say you can’t change it up? Be creative? Take chances! Make mistakes! Get messy! Join Sir Tokin as he tries to help kinksters new and old to Kink Outside of the Box.

POC and Me: Understanding Being a POC in the Community (1)

This conversation centers the lived experiences of POCs within kink, leather, and alternative spaces. We’ll unpack what it means to exist, thrive, and sometimes simply survive in communities. From visibility and representation to coded behaviors, microaggressions, and the emotional labor POCs are often expected to carry, nothing is off the table. This is not a lecture and it’s not a call-out. It’s a space for people to listen without defensiveness, to speak without fear of dismissal, and to examine how culture, race, and kink intersect in ways that are both beautiful and complicated. We’ll talk about solidarity, accountability, allyship that goes beyond words, and how we can move from awareness into action. This is open to anyone willing to show up honestly, sit with discomfort, and grow. Respect is required. Curiosity is encouraged. Growth is the goal. Because community only works when all of us are seen, protected, and valued.

Fisting: More Than Just the Hokey Pokey (3)

This class takes a deep, intentional dive into the art, trust, and connection behind fisting. We’ll explore anatomy, communication, preparation, pacing, and safety, all grounded in consent and care. This isn’t about shock value or bravado. It’s about reading bodies, honoring limits, and building the kind of trust that allows true surrender to unfold. You’ll learn techniques that prioritize comfort and control, how to stay present as sensations evolve, and why aftercare and emotional awareness matter just as much as the physical skills. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or simply wanting to understand the dynamics more fully, this class reframes fisting as a shared journey of stretch, patience, vulnerability, and sync. Come ready to learn, ask questions, and deepen your connection to both your partner and you.