Mr O & toy

Mr O is a creative sadist with a love of medical play, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum. Having spent 25 years as a martial arts competitor and instructor, he has found ways to apply his knowledge of body mechanics to kinky play and shares that in his teaching. toy is a masochistic cuck-servant with a penchant for dark rooms and terrifying people. She is passionate about sharing her experience with other bottoms so they can safely explore some of the scarier and more intimate aspects of psychological and emotional play. Within the House of O, they have taught together for over 10 years both locally (Ontario & Quebec Canada) as well as at events across the United States. They bring a unique perspective to kink education – advocating and facilitating classes that contain both bottom and top perspectives and experiences while engaging in and maintaining a long term emotionally S/m dynamic.

2026 Classes

Shut Your Hole: Sutures and more (3)

Whether it’s for chastity or just keeping someone quiet, there are often reasons we want to close up an orifice. We’ll discuss some of the ways we can do this, the precautions we can take to keep it safer, and some of the ways we can play with this. We will demonstrate using medical sutures, and the techniques and procedures involved. 

“That’s not what I meant!” Practical Communication in Play (1)

Everyone tells us that “communication” is the key to good relationships. But how do we effectively communicate while navigating power exchange or D/s dynamics particularly within non-monogamous or hierarchical relationship structures? Especially when we are usually navigating relationship structures that have never been healthily modeled for us. This class will explore effective communication strategies and skills for folks navigating non traditional forms of relationships within BDSM/kink/non-monogamy. While the class is intended (and useful!) for everyone, it is lead with the right side of the slash in mind.

Struggle Play and Rope (2)

Many of us like rough body play, and many of us like rope bondage too. What could be better than both combined? In this workshop we will look at using grappling take downs and pins to keep our partner still while we tie them, and ways we can use rope to control and move them as we play. Topics covered will include: Negotiation, Safety, Take Down, Pins, Quick Ties, Body Manipulation. Attendees should know a non-collapsing single and double column tie.

AMA: Poly Edition (Lunch Round Table)

Join Mr.O and toy at lunch for a frank and honest discussion about all things poly. The challenges, the joys, and the reality of long term dynamics. After 10+ years in a poly, kinky and D/s dynamic both have many experiences to share. This is not a “HOW TO DO POLY” talk but rather an open space and conversation about what we’ve learned along the way. Bring your questions and personal experiences nothing is off the (kitchen) table! Any and all questions are welcome!