Ms J

Ms. J (she/her) identifies as a community educator, sensual sadist, the Nana-Dragon pyromaniac, Agent of Chaos, Mama Bear to many, Mother of Kittehs to her three furry mobsters, a self- proclaimed connection junkie, the purveyor of bruise poking and hair pulling, the Happy Bouncy Sadist, a happily married monogamish human, and a bus-driving RACK playing mostly toppy kinda girl, This Fire Maven is versed in most types of flame skills, from burner and flow to vanilla and kinky. As an educator and player Ms. J is likely best known for her kinky fire play passion, however she also enjoys rough body play coupled with soft and gentle contact for that ultimate mind fuck in impact play, blade play with a sharp and shiny to slice off your clothes, the sticky sloppy wet sensations of food play, and the joy of drive-by dork play.

2026 Classes

Don’t play with your food! Well….why not?? (1)

Haven’t we all been told don’t run with scissors? Don’t hit your brother? Eat that – don’t play with your food! Sometimes we want to smash those norms and rules from childhood. Well, my retort is “You’re not the boss of me!” Food play, and specifically sploshing is all about playing with your food, getting messy and having fun. Do you want to be an ice cream sundae, with chocolate sauce, whipped cream, sprinkles, and a cherry on top? How about being your own PB&J sandwich celebration? Do you want to be blind folded and fed all manner of opposing foods and flavors? We will discuss everything from set-up and clean-up and how to minimize the mess; how to get your birthday caked bottom back to their hotel room for a shower; scene mood; and safety tips and concerns. Come on – play with your food – you know you want to!!

Fire Cupping (2)

Have you seen those big round bruises on someone’s back and thought “Those are some really big hickeys”; OR heard of cupping as one method of Traditional Chinese Medicine. But then ask yourself how does cupping relate to us kinky folks? Ms. J will start with an explanation of cupping and its history. She will teach you basic fire safety precautions specific to cupping. You will learn what is in a typical cupping kit. Watch a demonstration on how to give your bottom a nice massage; an evil massage; or just have them look like been attacked by an octopus! The safety concepts taught will be specific to this class, we will not cover basic fire safety concepts in depth.

Fireplay 201: Big Fire with Massage or Marshmallows (3)

If you are looking for maximum flame coverage for your bottom this is the fire play style for you. Alternately called: big fire, campfire, or towel of terror. You can take this in separate and distinct directions or incorporate both styles for the relaxing and goofy scene of your dreams. “Are you roasting marshmallows over there?” is something you might hear. Learn the campfire style for your goofy side and share those marshmallows with friends. Alternately, incorporate massage and relaxation techniques with the big fire, for the ultimate in tranquility for your bottom. If they fall asleep, take it as a compliment to your skills? Join Ms. J for this different take on fire play. The safety concepts taught will be specific to this class, we will not cover basic fire safety concepts in depth.