Sunny and Ox

Sunny Leigh Mayne (she/her) is a kink educator and active member of the BDSM community. Her interests include primal play, spiritual kink, erotic dance, high protocol, sensual BDSM, and erotic hypnosis. She is a writer of romance and erotica specializing in dark romance and fetish/BDSM stories. Host and producer of the Naughty Talk Podcast. Oximus (he/him) is a primal switch, pleasure Dom, and the collared pet of Sunny Leigh Mayne. An educator in his own right, he presents classes alongside his Master. An adventurous spirit, Ox enjoys mountain biking, snowboarding, and rugby. https://SunnyLeighMayne.com, http://soundcloud.com/naughtytalk, https://fetlife.com/SunnyLeighMayne, https://fetlife.com/Oximus

2026 Classes

Dungeon Dance Card Mixer (1)
Part mixer, part matchmaking party. Check out this bottom-agency centered event hosted by Sunny and Ox! Everyone will participate in a brief review of strategies for consent, inclusive/ gender affirming negotiation, and noping out with grace. Dominants and switches looking to top will fill out card signs indicating offerings (impact, rope, e-stim, or any other event-permitted scene skill), as well as other play partner preferences. Bottoms (and switches looking to bottom) can then peruse the offerings and strike up a conversation. If it’s a match, add each other to a timeslot on your dungeon dance card for the dungeon party! Sunny and Ox will remain available for support and guidance for anyone wanting help with negotiation or scene development!

Drugs, Dreams, Delirium, and Desire (3)
Have a sleeping beauty fetish? Curious about sedation, delirium, or sleep, for sexy play? Did you know that actual substances are not required to explore these dark erotic fantasies? Join Sunny and Ox to learn about consensual non consent (CNC), incapacitation role play. We’ll cover a range of scene ideas, practical considerations, and negotiation strategies. As always, lots of fun and sexy demos.

Bottoms Up (2)
We’ve all heard it before. “Receiving X is only for bottoms,” or “giving X is a Top thing.” Major eyeroll. Sunny and Ox are a D/s couple and of the opinion that these statements couldn’t be further from the truth! Join us on a hedonistic mission to disprove the idea that any kink or sex act automatically conveys dynamic. This class will be loaded with fun and sexy demos where we’ll blur the lines between giving and receiving WITHOUT any switching of dynamic or roles!

The More the Merrier (2)
Join us to explore scene design for group play! We’ll talk about the sexy, the awkward, and of course, strategy! Learn how to create a fluid interaction with more than one dynamic at play. We’ll also discuss negotiation strategies and the art of blending a variety of sexual preferences with grace. Giggle at some of Sunny and Ox’s learning moments during their adventures with menage.